background: this particular
You look like you got me at a good time Sunday.
? (<---- I was busy and that comment of his didn't just confuse me, but my friend too. No idea what he meant with it)
do i really have to say that in person for you to understand?
(after again confirming confusion with friend and figuring he wanted to brag about how he was busy Sunday and not getting back to me until tonight, Tuesday, I wrote:) No. I don’t care that much. Not bitchy, just honest. Draw back to text messages though – monotone
You texted me late the other night and of course you got to me too late.
(Too late to hang out? Uh, it was like midnight - of course it was late!) It was very late. I wasn’t asking to hang out, just getting back to your text from before
I know you weren’t. I just found it weird since you replied back more than 24 hours later. lol.
(seriously?! This from guy getting back to me Tuesday about a text I sent him Sunday? And the guy who wouldn't call me back for like a day or so when we were dating or whatever, oh, and always from somewhere ridiculously loud too, like a club or rowdy bar) Says the guy getting back to me now?? I told you I’ve been busy. I could have just not gotten back to you at all. (ok, that last part is kinda bitchy, but did he not want me to get back to him at all if it wasn't instantly after he sent the text Saturday?)
Chill out woman! Who pissed in your cereal? Your always flipping out when we talk. Take the convo the way it is and stop blowing it up.
(BandJ would do this constantly when we were dating too - I think just to make me look like a spaz, so doing it now via text isn't a good way to go if you want to be friends, idiot) Not flipping, though you seem to like to accuse me of that. Victim of that monotone thing maybe? Don’t know what you want
A normal convo. Can you type w/o your blood pressure going up? I would be talking in a normal way in person and you need medication.
(ask for a normal convo and then tell me I need meds, oh yea, that's gonna make everything all better) I’ve been pretty good but how can you expect a normal convo from here when you make comments like that? Honestly. Why do you wanna talk or see me when you’re just so hurtful? (more important question- why do I give him the time of day when he treats me so unnecessarily badly and is so mean?)
Your crazy. Now your bringing back up the past. You need to stop texting bc you honestly cant tell how messages are being said.
(I did stop texting at this point because 1)he kept texting worse and worse stuff and there wasn't enough room in FIVE text messages to correct all the shit he was trying to feed me and 2) that question I asked above about why he gets the time was rolling around in my head)
And plus I knew in the beginning after we both agreed about being friends I knew that’s not what you wanted. I saw it coming and you cant handle it. (I wanted to say, but didn't: 'I said I wanted a boyfriend that WASN'T you and said I'd have to think about us being friends. Then you categorized me, said we couldn't be friends and I couldn't talk to you anymore because you were being so unnecessarily hurtful. Your asinine comments and time have proven to me that I don't need someone so manipulative and hurtful like you in my life. You're not good - see what I mean about not enough space to write all that in one text???)
I don’t wanna talk or see you the way you think. im just talking to you bc I can bc you started texting me back so wake the fuck up (ahhh, why did I start texting him back?! Thanks for the "wake up" call and reminder that you're a jerk.)
And the comment was normal. You just wanna believ it wasn’t. Your an idiot. I cant even bust your balls. (I must be an idiot to keep talking to you and you must really think I am one if you think I believe any of your twisted version of the "truth")
Posts
